Would you rather stay single and lonely or get married and later miserable? This is a question that many ask themselves, the answer to this question depends on how you look at life. It is possible to be single and happy and at the same time happily married, it all depends on the choices that you make. If you choose to be single, make sure you pursue happiness, through this you will not even realize that you are single. Surround yourself with people who make you happy, those that value and respect your choice of being single. If you have chosen to marry, make sure you are not doing it out of pressure, some enter into marriage life due to pressure, their biological clock is ticking and they have not had children or have not brought a woman home. If you do it out of pressure chances are you will compromise happiness in order to make your marriage work. Instead marry for love, pursue happiness, make your spouse happy, care for your family and you will be married and happy. You have the power to shape your destiny, if you opt to be single did it for a reason, it should not be out pressure as at the end of the day you will retreat to your house and face the reality, it should be something that you have decided as an individual, otherwise allowing others to make such an important decision will only make your life miserable.